Neither. I walk around it for a while.
It takes me some time to make up my mind about any confrontation, especially ones that happen to me in person. I really dislike any kind of disagreement, even if it’s to further a cause or discover something unknown. But I also know that there are conflicts that could never be avoided or must be addressed sooner rather than later. And that’s the part I hate.
For me to deal with a problem, there must be a significant amount of inconvenience or discomfort that must be made obvious to me. And because that’s the condition I seek, it usually happens to me firsthand.
And that’s when I barge right through, with a cold resolve that couldn’t be outmatched by neither North nor South Poles.
Once I can’t stand it, it will fall.